By Amanda Mesa | Published on January 15, 2026
Those closest to me know that I love to plan vacations — not just for myself but for others, too. My friends and family joke that I should have been a travel agent because I'm always looking for girls’ and guys’ weekend trip ideas to share with them and add to my ever-growing travel wishlist.
Over the years, I've scoured hundreds of travel blogs, magazines and trip-planning resources. I usually focus on cruises for friends that pack plenty of fun into a short period of time because it can be difficult for friends to juggle time off with a busy work schedule.
Chief among my list of vacation hacks? Booking a cruise is sure to minimize stress, simplify planning and keep your costs down. Whether I'm figuring out a ladies’ weekend getaway for me and my besties, looking for guys trip ideas for my husband or brother, or trying to put together a coed escape for a group of friends or couples, cruises are my first choice. And I always start with the three Cs — convenience, cost and comfort. Read on for more tips and advice.
Key Takeaways: Planning Cruises for Friends
Sailing with friends makes the whole trip easier and more fun than doing it solo. You can split costs and lean on each other for the little things. Plus, you never run out of company for dinner, dancing, shore excursions or any other activities you can dream up. At the same time, there’s always room to branch off and do your own thing before meeting up again to swap stories.
Below are my top tips for making your cruise vacation with friends one you’ll all remember for the long haul.
The biggest cruise lines have departure ports in most major coastal cities across the U.S., from Boston and New York to Miami, Galveston, Seattle and Los Angeles. That means their ships are easily accessible from almost anywhere in the country via plane or car. Many of my friends live in Florida, home to at least five different cruise ports, so planning getaways together from the Sunshine State is a breeze, no matter what time of year we get together.
Another great thing about cruises is that all of the major cruise lines offer plenty of short three- and four-night itineraries. This comes in handy if you or anyone in your group can only spare a few days for a getaway.
Before you start planning anything, figure out what "convenience" means to you and your friends — is it an awesome deal, a nearby departure port, an itinerary that doesn't involve too many days off or all three elements combined? Once you've established that, you can narrow down sailings based on that criteria.
Because my friends all have different budgets, finding a vacation everyone can afford is a top priority when looking for girls’ or guys’ weekend trip ideas. Having planned many group vacations over the years, I've learned that the value in cruising is hard to beat. Very few other travel options include all of your dining, most onboard activities and plenty of nightly entertainment in the cost of your room. Plus, when traveling in groups, you can take advantage of the Royal Caribbean family and friends discount.
Even if we decide to go further afield to catch a ship — say, Vancouver or even Barcelona — it's easier to find ways to save on airfare because some cruise lines bundle flights with the fare. Some will even guarantee the lowest price on your choice of airline, or they'll give you the difference as an onboard credit. Major cruise lines and luxury brands also tend to have specialists available 24/7 to help if you experience unexpected flight delays or cancellations. As a frequent traveler, I've had to deal with my fair share of trip interruptions, so having a dedicated team to handle hiccups and ensure I make it onto the cruise ship is a huge stress reliever.
The biggest cruise lines in the world boast expansive fleets with many different ships to choose from. You'll likely find smaller and mid-sized ships that cater more to adults, as well as large ships that are loaded with attractions for all ages. These ships usually cover a range of price points, too. For example, sailings on older ships typically cost less than on the newest ships in the fleet.
Deciding which ship you and your crew will be most comfortable on depends on a variety of factors, including how many people you're traveling with, how many connecting rooms you'll need, whether this is an adults-only celebration getaway and how much time you plan to spend on the ship versus on land. For example, if you're eyeing itineraries with lots of sea days, you'll want to consider a ship that offers plenty to do on board. If you and your friends are foodies, research the dining scenes on different ships beforehand to see which ones appeal most to you. Looking to spend the least amount of money? Look into older ships: Many of them sail to the same popular destinations as their larger, more expensive sisters.
Personally, I prefer the more intimate vibe of a smaller ship when I'm traveling with a group of girlfriends and the energy of a bigger ship when there are kids in tow.
There's no such thing as a one-size-fits-all vacation — and my friends and family all have wildly different ideas of what the perfect getaway entails. The one love we all have in common is spending time together. So when I'm brainstorming guys’ or girlfriends’ weekend ideas, I try to look for itineraries that offer a variety of activities, experiences, entertainment and dining options. Weekend cruises to the Caribbean or the resort towns along the West Coast and Mexico are options that cater to a diverse array of personalities. Each offers plenty of sun and opportunities to relax beachside or chase thrills inland.
On the other hand, if everyone in your group enjoys more rugged outdoor activities like hiking or kayaking, consider heading away with friends on a cruise to Alaska. Granted, these itineraries are usually around a week long, but if your party can swing the additional days off, you'll be in for an unforgettable, one-of-a-kind adventure. If fall foliage and charming seaside towns are more your speed, consider a sailing along the northeast coast. These beautiful cruises tend to be shorter in length and often depart from easy-to-access cities like Boston. The options are endless — and most offer a good mix of experiences to choose from.
You should always talk to the people in your group about how much time everyone can spare before you start looking for sailings. This is crucial when planning girls’ or guys’ weekend cruises, as coordinating time off can be a difficult, time-consuming process. Understanding how much time everyone can dedicate to a vacation before starting the planning process can prevent a lot of stress and potential disappointment.
Knowing what time constraints you're working with across your group can also help narrow your options. Most major cruise lines offer filters on their booking sites that let you browse sailings based on duration, ship, departure port or destination, so you don't have to spend hours scrolling through itineraries. If you're booking your getaway with a travel agent or the cruise line reservations hotline, you'll get better options faster if you can provide specific criteria. This includes your preferred length of sailing or departure port. Keep in mind that shorter cruises have fewer ports of call, so selecting a cruise ship with lots of activities on board helps you squeeze more fun into your getaway.
You'll also want to consider the time of year that you and your friends can travel, as this may impact your choice of itinerary. Some people have more leeway to travel during certain times of the year (especially if they're trying to work around kids' school schedules). Also, some popular vacation destinations deliver vastly different price points and experiences depending on when you go.
I always try to time my getaways during a destination's shoulder season to take advantage of better deals and fewer tourists. All it takes is a little research into your destination or region of choice. You might have fewer dates or ships to choose from, but flexibility can result in huge cost savings and a better overall experience during your vacation.
Working together as a group to decide on how you're traveling together can help make the trip smooth once you arrive. For example, when I'm traveling for a special occasion, I always purchase a beverage package because it helps to save money and simplify the planning process. The Royal Caribbean deluxe beverage package, for example, covers unlimited alcoholic beverages during your entire sailing for one flat price. If you're traveling with foodies, consider buying a specialty dining package — either for three nights or every night of a longer sailing.
These value-boosting bundles allow you and your friends to taste your way across the ship's specialty restaurants at a deep discount. You could dine at a Tuscan spot one night, sushi the next night and then a steakhouse on the following night — remember to make your dinner reservations in the cruise line app before you board the ship.
Another activity to book in advance is evening performances. Broadway at Sea℠, comedy shows and aerial acrobatics performances in the AquaTheater are usually available on the first day of the month prior to your sailing month.
On ladies' weekend getaways with my besties, I also like to plan early for a spa day. I suggest booking spa treatments before sailing via the cruise line app or website, as it's usually cheaper than purchasing them on board the ship. The most popular times are sea days, and you'll need to plan ahead to get those appointments — even spa day passes (which provide access to the steam rooms and saunas as well as other treats like heated, tiled lounge chairs) can sell out in advance. Consider also booking manicures and pedicures for your group for the first day, and blowouts in the salon for formal night. Another nice guys’ or girlfriends’ weekend idea: working out together. On board, you'll find group fitness classes, such as yoga and pilates, and you can also book a group session with a trainer.
If our sailing involves stops at destinations we've never visited before, my friends and I also purchase shore excursions in advance so that we can get to know each port with an expert guide, and factor in the expense into our planning. Every destination usually includes a range of excursions to choose from at different activity levels and price points, from cooking classes and catamaran sailings to zip line adventures and city tours. Work together to figure out which options are best for the whole gang, and book them before they sell out.
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